Helping you find your authentic self in sex
My role as a sex therapist is to help you identify your sexually authentic self; the way you feel about sex, and the relationship you want to have with sex.
Through reflection, tools and exercises, I can help you process the past experiences that are affecting you, and move towards the kind of relationship you want with sex in the present.
Helping you to grow in your relationship
As a relationship therapist, (sometimes known as intimate partner therapist or couple therapist) my role is to help people connect with each other. In therapy, I help individuals improve their emotional, romantic and sexual intimacy through tools, exercises and above all, communication.
I believe relationships can thrive when each person gives them the time and attention that they need, regardless of whether the relationship is romantic, sexual or platonic.
I specialise in non-monogamy, gender, sexual diversity and kink
I work with a range of relationship orientations including non-monogamous, open relationships, relationship anarchy, swinging, polyamory, polyfidelity, open and closed triads, and BDSM non-monogamy. I also work with mixed relationship orientation relationships.
Whether you are thinking about opening up your relationship, reflecting on your own relationship orientation or struggling with the unique challenges that non-monogamy can present, I can help. My practice is an affirming space regardless of where you fall on the monogamy to non-monogamy spectrum.
Non-monogamy
Gender and Sexual Diversity
I work with people of various genders, including transgender, non-binary, gender fluid, expansive and non-conforming people. I can help you understand and manage dysphoria, navigate your transition and support you through your journey.
I also work with people of various sexualities, romantic and sexual orientations, including bisexual, lesbian, polysexual, gay, queer, pansexual, and those on the asexual and aromantic spectrum. Together we can reflect on your relationship to attraction, desire and arousal, and help you to understand and express yourself in a more authentic way.
Kink, Fetish and BDSM
I am a kink affirming therapist. I often work with clients who are struggling to accept part of their sexual (or non-sexual) identity, and are experiencing shame around a kink or fetish, as well as clients who are attempting to explore or negotiate a kink or fetish with a partner.
If you're struggling to understand what it is you want or need, or you're finding it difficult to talk about kink and fetish with a partner, I can help. I can support you in reflecting on your kinks and fetishes, understanding any shame, and identifying the relationship you'd like to have with a kink or fetish moving forward.
